As I mentioned before, we're having a private ceremony on Friday. We're hanging from a cliff - actually free rappelling down and stopping halfway to do the ceremony. It just dawned on me yesterday that I don't really need a bouquet. The only thing I'd use it for would be pictures on Saturday and then walking into the reception. The grounds of the reception site are beautiful. They have this huge garden with gorgeous flowers. I don't know that a bouquet is really necessary. My aunt is a pro photographer so I asked her for her opinion, picture-wise. I could also purchase a broach bouquet from Etsy. What do you guys think?