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ahhhhhhhh!!!!! grrrrrr

LeciaBLeciaB member
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i am going to flip if another negro calls me trying to add a plus one to my wedding.. i am going to snap...
@sultryzulu I can wait until tomorrow... dear black people .. is it that hard for you to 1.rsvp  and 2.
rsvpfor the alloted number that you were
given. Also this is not a birthday party, bbq, or any other event that you can freely invite people. So 
leave me alone.. i got other things to worry about....and you coming to my wedding is not one of them...

Daisypath - (PNE7)
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  • SenecafSenecaf member
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    My wedding is still a year out but this I already know with my people this will be an issue It's not an open party
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  • marsm4marsm4 member
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    I feel you @LeciaB! One of my classmates that I invited as a single told another classmate that she would bring her as her date! Ummmm, who said you had a plus one? That was NOT on the invite!
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  • Soon to Be Mrs JaySoon to Be Mrs Jay member
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    People are amazing. You would think it would be easy to just check yes or no and place in nearest mailbox. I am not looking forward to this part of the planning process.
    I hope ppl get there acts together @ LeciaB soon. You do not have long till you become a MRS!!!!!
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  • tirathemrstirathemrs member
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    LeciaB you got my number i will surely call and say ummm you and only you are invited and if you want to bring someone else you will need to x amount per person or stay home LOL

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  • island07b2bisland07b2b member
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    edited October 2013
    Chile please.   You can't just roll up to my house with an extra anyone for a bbq, bday party, dog christening, NOTHING, unless you are bringing an extra something to accommodate your all of your unexpectedness much less MY WEDDING!   LOL!   Seriously, I sure hope I don't have to deal with this come my wedding day.  I am going to have to figure out a way to automatically reject invites that are sent back as "unauthorized" RSVPs.  Hmmm...I wonder if there is a way to scan for that without opening up the envelope...

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  • [Deleted User][Deleted User] member
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    you know how sometimes you call your *local* phone company with a question and you reach somebody in malaysia?  yeah ya'll need to seriously consider outsourcing.  you're clearly too nice to fix this. Luckily for you, I. Am. Not.  lol.  Consider it a gift from you to your budget and let's geaux.  Get your spreadsheets out, send names and phone numbers of contestants and we can get this handled in about an hour.  It would also help out a lot if you tell me how important to you, on a scale of one to ten, preserving the relationship is.    or, hey OR...you can be swole the hell up at how it's costing ya'll a buck twenty five to feed somebody you don't even know.   

    if it helps I always start nicely    :D
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  • LeciaBLeciaB member
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    yay!! yall are the best ever...

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  • [Deleted User][Deleted User] member
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    oooh Leesh just solved the problem - do this for each other's weddings.    there we go.


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  • MissusD1116MissusD1116 member
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    Hayle no!  I am getting rsvp's back and not having any issues with the adding of folk, my issue is folks not indicating whether they are ACCEPTING or DECLINING!  Please stop sending me the card back with just your name!  This does not help me with a headcount...  geesh!  Now I got to call folks just to ask them if they are coming or not!  DAMN! DAMN! DAMN! JAMESSSS!!!!!!!
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  • LeciaBLeciaB member
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    @missusd1116... date twin.. the best is when people send the card back and didnt even write their name in nor did they put a return address

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  • MissusD1116MissusD1116 member
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    LeciaB said:
    @missusd1116... date twin.. the best is when people send the card back and didnt even write their name in nor did they put a return address
    Well, date twin, I had a remedy for the "no name" situation.  Although my card says "write in the names of those attending."  I put numbers on the back of the cards so just in case someone didn't  know that reading was fundamental, I would still know whose card it was!
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  • thedivavthedivav member
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    MissusD1116 said:
    LeciaB said:
    @missusd1116... date twin.. the best is when people send the card back and didnt even write their name in nor did they put a return address
    Well, date twin, I had a remedy for the "no name" situation.  Although my card says "write in the names of those attending."  I put numbers on the back of the cards so just in case someone didn't  know that reading was fundamental, I would still know whose card it was!
    i told mista about this he was like why? ugh men... some days i want to choke him lol 
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  • cideficidefi member
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    See imma turn my RSVP card into a instructional card.

    Please fill in your name...
    Please fill in the number of adults in ur party
    Please fill in the number of children in ur party

    Return this card to sender in the self addressed and stamped envelope provided. If your card is not returned u and ur family members will be turned per head count. Thank u ~

    Man I wish I could write this...
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  • cali113cali113 member
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    LOL!  I am putting the following...

    1 Seat has been reserved for you

    ____yes  _____regrets
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  • LeciaBLeciaB member
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    edited October 2013
    @cali113 ... I did the same thing.. it worked out well for the most part...except for the people that wanted over the number they were given
    I think If i would have known what I know now.. I would have put on the card if you dont RSVP you will not have a seat. (yea i know its a little tacky but hey.. i need to know)

    Daisypath - (PNE7)
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