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Thank you cards

bakeriebakerie member
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Maybe a stupid question but: Is it rude if some thank you cards are different from the others? I ran out of the ones I bought and only have a few left to write so I was just going to use blank notecards I already have. It seems silly to go out and by a whole other box of fifty so they match when I have plenty of perfectly good notecards here, but I just wanted to make sure that it wasn't tacky or anything. I'm probably overthinking this, right? I'm just super paranoid about appearing rude to people.
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  • KeptInStitchesKeptInStitches member
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    No, I seriously doubt your guests are going to compare thank-you cards to make sure they are all on the same notecards. Go ahead and use the ones you have.
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  • banana468banana468 member
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    It's fine! I used multiple ones and I think the variety helped the task feel less monotonous.
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  • climbingsingleclimbingsingle member
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    KeptInStitches said:
    No, I seriously doubt your guests are going to compare thank-you cards to make sure they are all on the same notecards. Go ahead and use the ones you have.
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  • bakeriebakerie member
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    Thanks guys! I knew I was being silly, it was just one of those little things my brain decided to freak out about. :)
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  • [Deleted User][Deleted User] member
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    It's fine. What's they will remember more is if they got one or not.
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  • Jen4948Jen4948 member
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    Yeah, people will pay more attention to whether they got a thank-you note, if it was timely, and if it was graciously worded (not just "thanks for the X") than the actual stationery you write it on.
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  • WinstonsGirlWinstonsGirl member
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    No biggie.  We sent out a couple that were different, since we got some gifts so late out.  It's the note that's important, not what the card looks like

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  • RebeccaB88RebeccaB88 member
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    I can honestly say that I would not compare the thank you card I got with one someone else got.  The most important thing is to do them. Doesn't matter if they're different.
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  • phiraphira member
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    Your guests are not like my undergraduates when I hand back tests and quizzes. They will not compare the stationery.
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  • CommitmentCatCommitmentCat member
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    bakerie said:
    Thanks guys! I knew I was being silly, it was just one of those little things my brain decided to freak out about. :)
    I feel you! I am doing this for everything, and I only just started planning. It is going to be a long year. But like the others said, I don't think the cards matter. It's nice that you are sending thank you cards and that's what counts. At least you're not sending the last few in a text message lol!
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