So today I was having lunch with FI and FMIL and she goes "I was discussing this with my sister and we were thinking of having a shower for everyone to come to, guys and girls, and it could be travel themed and it could go towards your honeymoon." (My Mom and aunts asked her if she wants to be included in planning the shower. So she doesn't even have complete control to dictate it.)
She continued on that we could ask people to bring cash for the honeymoon "I think it's called a greenback shower" or I could register with my travel agent. I responded that our honeymoon has already been booked and paid for, and a more traditional style might be more my speed. She was baffled "but how did you PAY for it?? You aren't planning on using your cash gifts from the wedding??"
I responded we paid for it ourselves, as we always planned to and changed the subject. She thinks I'm being snobby. Ughhhh can it be April already?