Well, I knew this would happen, but I didn't expect it to happen with the very first response card I opened.
We are being married by a good friend who is studying to be a minister (yes, he can legally marry us, and yes, we are planning to pay him). As far as I know, he is not in a relationship (he frequently mentions his single status), so we did not invite him with a guest. However, when we got his response card, he responded for two people, not one.
Also, I posted a few months ago about two extra, uninvited guests showing up to me bridal shower because my aunt's mother needed a ride, so her other daughter, who lives in the same town, drove her, and she and her daughter attended the shower along with aunt's mother-still with me? I (stupidly, stupidly) did not follow the fora's advice, and invited the two of them plus aunt's sister's husband to the wedding. Got their response card today, and they, too, have added another person, I assume their youngest son, who is away at college.
Re: Situation 2, I cannot believe I was stupid enough to invite them in the first place, but I already felt a little bad about not including them, and then they showed up at the shower. I guess I just have to bite the bullet, call them up, and tell them younger son is not invited? This is hard.
Re: Situation 1: I'm not sure what to do here. Given his role in the wedding, I feel bad about telling our friend he can't bring his guest, but it also freaks me out that our very first response has a plus one. We cannot afford extra guests, especially people we don't even know.
WWYD?