Can anyone help answer some of the questions? And please don't laugh if they're silly, I genuinely don't know!
Do you have to do gifts for the parents? (We're going to anyways, I'm just curious.)
What parents do you get gifts for? I know I'm getting one for his mom, but do I get one for his step-dad as well? (His dad passed away about 9 years ago.) Does he get one for my mom, my dad, or both?
Do you help each other pick out the gifts for your parents, or just say "hey I'm getting her/him this"? Is it acceptable to try to get hints about what the parents would like?
When do you give the gifts to the parents?
Is there anything that should NOT be given as a gift?