So, my question revolved around post wedding sex and how often is normal? Okay, I know that there really isn't a normal, and that every couple is different. Backstory: when DH and I were dating, and pre-cohabitated, we saw each other once a week, sometimes twice, and usually had sex at least that once a week. Then wedding planning, and stress overload came, and it wound down to less than once a week. The honeymoon was GREAT; we both had a really good time, but I think it happened once. Maybe twice. Honestly, I don't even recall. From then on, he's been back at work, and both of us have been under way more stress than usual due to life, and just getting used to living with someone. We're both older, and a little more set in our ways than say, a 24 year old! Last time I initiated anything was at the end of August. We were away for another wedding, and things were heating up a bit. I went to the washroom to freshen up a bit, and 4 minutes later, when I got back to bed, he was up and dressed. Last time we got any action was about 2 weeks ago! Pre-dating, he was a 42 year old virgin, so the sex thing was new and really exciting for him. He's not the most delicate lover though, and while he does try, he tends to forget what this woman likes from each time we have sex. As a result, I tend to now shy away from it, and I hate to keep repeating myself, but things definitely need to change in this regard, with both of us! Any suggestions?