Is anyone doing a theme wedding? I really want to do butterflies as an accent with my colors (purple, blue and white) but not sure if I should have invitations with butterflies. I kinda want to do things as a secret until people come to the wedding so they can be surprised on what I do. I just don't want to give out a ton of details to everyone. Can anyone help with some ideas? I am also not wanting it to be too expensive since we are paying for it.