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The wedding nightmares have begun.

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327 days to go and I'm already having nightmares. I can't take another 10 months of these crazy dreams!

What's hilarious is that the dreams don't even make sense. One of my best friends is my hairdresser. She's doing my makeup and my hair. Yet I'm having dreams about showing up at a salon and they can't fit me in for another two hours and then I'm going to be late. 

Another dream I've been having is that I've run out of time to find a dress and I have nothing to wear the day of. Ay yi yi. Are you guys having crazy dreams too? I seriously don't remember having dreams like this before my first wedding. 
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  • FutureMr&MrsGFutureMr&MrsG member
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    I also had a crazy dream!

    I am NEY but we have been looking at rings and I had a nightmare the other night that it was time for my wedding but my hair and makeup was not done. Nobody told me what time I needed to be ready by and I did not have anyone to do hair/makeup so my MOH was doing it and she curled my bangs (I do not even have bangs) into a tight roll on my forehead and the rest of my hair was all stringy. I was freaking out trying to fix my hair and yelling because nobody told me what time the wedding was!

    When I got to the cermony (late) my Step Dad who I wanted to walk me down the isle was not there, so I had to have my Father do it and I was not happy. Later I found out that my Mom and Step Dad were drunk on a Ferris Wheel and did not want to get off the ride!

    I hope that was my only crazy wedding related dream!

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  • misssunshine17misssunshine17 member
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    Do you work on/ think about wedding stuff before bed? I noticed that I had weird dreams when I was. I would stop about an hour before bed and then it was fine. 
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  • climbingsingleclimbingsingle member
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    misssunshine17 said:
    Do you work on/ think about wedding stuff before bed? I noticed that I had weird dreams when I was. I would stop about an hour before bed and then it was fine. 
    I actually don't! I usually read right before bed. And I haven't been particularly stressed about the wedding either. 
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  • FutureMrsN3312FutureMrsN3312 member
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    I've had 2 so far.

    The first was that I showed up to my shower in yoga pants and a tshirt.  I was sooooo pissed at everyone for not hinting or making sure I had something to wear.

    2nd was that I was all dressed and ready to walk down the isle when I passed a mirror and realized my hair wasn't done.

    Obviously neither are a huge deal and not something I've been stressing over.  I typically don't do wedding stuff at home so I'm not sure why I had these dreams.  The shower one was so real I woke up a little confused lol
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  • Chipmunk415Chipmunk415 member
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    FI is trying to give me a nightmare- I'd said I was fine with a nice suit as opposed to a tux. He's threatened three times to show up in a smoking jacket and jorts (jean shorts), arguing that since I want to give a "simple, non drama" vibe to everything, his attire is the epitome of that idea. I nearly fell through the floor!
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  • climbingsingleclimbingsingle member
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    Lol! I feel your pain. FI wants to wear flip flops. 
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  • Gustafson28Gustafson28 member
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    My FI is wearing flip flops and that's cool with me. Bare foot or flip flops for myself too
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  • silver0319silver0319 member
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    I've had several over the course of the planning process, but they had stopped for a while. I had one this weekend that woke me up in a panic. In my dream, FI and I decided to get married in a large cathedral instead of our current venue. As I was about to walk into the church, I realized we forgot to tell our photographer about the change in venue and she was at least 45 minutes away. It was definitely weird and stressful, but I'm so glad that was just a dream!
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  • KytchynWitcheKytchynWitche member
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    I only had two weird wedding dreams in the first week of the engagement. Since then, not a thing.

    The first was that I couldn't find a wedding dress and ended up wearing a navy sundress with a turquoise fascinator. I HATE fascinators.

    The second involved performing a certain kind of favour for everyone on the guest list so that they would give us money for the wedding. Which is very disturbing and not something I would do in any lifetime.
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  • Lauderdale PinkLauderdale Pink member
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    Had a dream that I slept through my daughter's wedding and missed the whole thing!
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  • princessleia22princessleia22 member
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    edited November 2013
    Gustafson28 said: My FI is wearing flip flops and that's cool with me. Bare foot or flip flops for myself too

    Now, I know I can't allow my FI to wear flip flops to our wedding, even though we are doing a destination wedding... he's one of those horrible types that always     wears socks with flip flops! :-O  
    I have been trying to end that habit for over 4 years! He's cut back on it, but I haven't been able to fully cure him of his horrible fashion sense.  He even got called out on it the other day by a 10 year old saying that it was just wrong. :-)

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  • FutureMr&MrsGFutureMr&MrsG member
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    My boyfriend had a dream the other night that we brought the setting he purchased to the store to have the diamond set and were told it would cost $5000 to set the ring.I was crying and he felt bad because he didn't have enough money.
    Looks like it's not just us ladies having the nightmares!
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  • ahyatt87ahyatt87 member
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    I have a recurring bad dream where I show up on the wedding day and none of vendors are there! It is then that I realize I forgot to pay the balance on the deposit for all my vendors. I wake-up in a panic as a result. I haven't had a dream like this for a few months, but I had it again last night :( I have put reminders on my iCal, in my planner, and on my checklist, but nothing seems to put a stop to these dreams. So scary!!!
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  • PolarBearFitzPolarBearFitz member
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    edited November 2013
    Thanks to reading this thread yesterday, I had a nightmare last night! lol

    My dress had aged 40+ years over night and had mildew on it but somehow I was wearing it. I was in a high school and no one could help me fix it no matter how many people I asked. I also had on a ridiculous 80's style veil for some reason which had no damage. So ridiculous!!!

    lol thank you ladies!
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  • maryemoomaryemoo member
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    Mine have been slowly trickling in for about a week and a half now...I'm about 7 1/2 months away. The other night it was one right after another. It poured rain and the venue flooded. My dress ripped and everyone saw me naked.

    The last one I remember was that for some emergency reason we had to get married before Thanksgiving. I didn't know that the time had changed though, I thought it was summer when we were getting married, but I showed up and none of the chairs or flowers had been delivered, my officiant was MIA, and I had no shoes. I don't know how it happened, but somehow FI convinced Ironman and Thor to quickly set up all the chairs/flowers, and then I got a call from Loki saying that he would marry us. Weirdest dream yet.

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