So I know a 4 year engagement is long, but there are reasons for it beyond the saving money & paying cash. But we want to lock down a venue now. First, places in this area book quickly, many do one wedding a day and we want our day & our choice. Second, sign now, the price is locked in. So my rant is when I call places, so many are out right rude!!! They won't book that far in advance, its silly, etc. I was in tears last night because some venues won't even show us the place this far out. It is really making me mad. This is my FI first wedding, and he is so excited. I want him to have everything he wants and these venues are ruining our planning fun!!!