a church ceremony really

Re: a church ceremony really

• CallaLily25 member

  

  November 2013

  Weddings often require compromises. I would find out why your FI wants to get married in a church. If it's really important to him, then I think it should definitely be up for discussion.
  
  Just because your dress isn't formal, doesn't mean you can't get married in a church. As long as it's appropriate (i.e. not see through or something like that), you're fine.
  

  
  

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• Viczaesar member

  

  November 2013

  
  

  T,Hankins said:

  I have been successfully planning my wedding for the past 3 months picked a venue bought my dress my bm dresses wedding colers invitations and every thing. We live in Vegas so you have to book nice venues early i decided on an outdoor wedding so. I found a climite controlled garden room for June the whole time its been whatever you want babe now he wants a church wedding wtf i cant remember the last time he set foot in a church my dress and bm dresses are not formal i Di not want a tacky wedding. I want. Him to be involved but omg i have to change every thing what shouldvi do

  Wow, that entire paragraph was one long sentence.
  
  You don't need to have formal dresses to get married in a church.  Talk to him and find out why he wants to get married in a church. 
  

  
  
  
  

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• lovesclimbing member

  

  November 2013

  As I said in your post in AA, please, please, please, please punctuate.  Your posts are very difficult to read.

  
  

  @CallaLily25's advice is spot on.

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• SBmini member

  

  November 2013

  I'm betting he's getting pressure from family. I'd ask him why it is important that he get married in a church and why it didn't come up sooner. If you already have venues it can be hard to cancel without losing money. And if it isn't what you want, I think you need to find middle ground. Maybe a religious officiant in the garden? That would be beautiful.

  
  

  
  

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• NYCMercedes member

  

  November 2013

  You may have to confront your worst fear: a tacky wedding may happen regardless.

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• T,Hankins member

  

  November 2013

  Didn't know I was in English class. SORRY
  

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• Viczaesar member

  

  November 2013

  
  

  T,Hankins said:

  Didn't know I was in English class. SORRY

  The point of English classes is to learn how to effectively communicate with other people.  By not using proper English, including correct spelling, capitalization, and punctuation, you are making yourself very difficult to understand and frankly negating the point of posting on the internet to ask for advice.  We cannot advise you if we cannot understand you. 
  

  
  
  
  

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• RebeccaB88 member

  

  November 2013

  It's not about us being nitpicky or English class. It's about your effectiveness at communicating what you're trying to say.  We can't understand the point of your question, so we can't offer suggestions or advice.  The more clear you are, the better answers you are going to get. Most people aren't going to take extra time to translate what they think you might be saying, so they'll just skip it and move on to the next post.
  

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• lovesclimbing member

  

  November 2013

  T,Hankins said:

  Didn't know I was in English class. SORRY

  This is not an English class.  However, the point of punctuation and proper sentence structure is to be able to effectively communicate what you are trying to say.  As I said in your AA thread, I had to read it three times before I figured out exactly what you were saying, and I still am not sure what the last statement in that post meant.  You will get more and much better answers to your questions if people can understand what you are saying.  

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