I having quite the dilemma. It's coming to the point where I'm having to choose my bridesmaids. Ive given it lots of thought, but have come to no conclusion and am dreading actually making the final decision.
I have friends, but at this point in my life, I don't feel like I have anyone who is that close to me or is truly supportive. My sister assumes she is going to be my bridesmaid, if not my MOH, when we don't even get along. We live together, yes, but we could not be more opposite. She judges and criticizes every choice I make and thinks I'm ridiculous when really we just have different taste. She makes me miserable and I can't stand being around her for more than an hour, so why would I bring her in as a bridesmaid? My future SIL is 7 years older and we don't even know each other, really. She has no interest in me, so far, but I feel if include my sister, I need to include her.
I have asked my finance about not even having a bridal party, but he has 3 groomsmen who he is extremely close to and he wants to have as groomsmen. So basically I have no choice but to choose 3 people.
I truly believe a bridesmaid is someone significant in your life who supports you and loves you, not someone out of obligation. What do I do?!