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Wedding Woes

MIA Bridesmaid

I'm so frustrated I may go crazy. i'm getting married in the summer and I have bridesmaids in 4 states and crossing 2 countries which is no easy task. I only have 1 bridesmaid that lives in the area and she has gone off the grid for months now. She has been without a cell phone for about 3 months now because she is waiting for the new iPhone to be in stock. In addition to not being able to call her or text her, she hasn't been checking her facebook or email messages. I've been trying to reach her through her boyfriend but he is obviously getting frustrated.

I have no idea what to do. I feel so hurt that she's been MIA but its not like I can talk to her about it. Her bf said to not take it personally but its hard to after several months and when emails are going around about my shower and bachlorette party. 

What do I do? Just count her out?

Re: MIA Bridesmaid

  • All she has to do is show up for the wedding in the right clothes. Anything else is extra. It is not the end of the world if she doesn't get involved with or attend any pre-wedding parties.
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  • I feel your pain.  My wedding is in four days and I have one I can't reach.   I don't even know if she is coming. 

    Her boyfriend is right, don't take it personally.  This is her issue.

    I wish I could tell you what to do.  I don't even know myself. 

    You need some help planning all this stuff.  Are there family members who can step up and help you with things?

  • I agree it is not mandatory, but I would like a heads up since the bridal party is throwing my shower for me. Other bridesmaids are wondering if that should count her in. I just want the communication
  • @wilson24019: Why would she need someone to help plan? I planned our entire wedding with no help from anyone, including my husband.

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