Are we supposed to send STDs to everyone invited to the wedding, or should we mostly send the to out of towners & people who might be making other plans?
I mean, my immediate family and grandparents live close and are of course coming, but FI does have cousins out of state that he's not super super close to (they were as kids, but grew up and moved away), but we would like to be there if they can make it. We JUST set our date, and it turned out to be Good Friday. (We didn't realize that at first!) So we know we need to send them out right away so people can decide if they want to travel for our wedding or make local Easter plans.
I'm just not sure if we should send them TO the locals, who will almost certainly attend anyway.