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Cold feet or is he calling it off ?

Marho1984Marho1984 member
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I'm 29 and my Fiancee is 26. We have been together for 31/2 years and living together for most of that time. We have been engaged for almost 6 months now. I'd say 98% of our wedding is planned and I was addressing our save the dates just yesterday. Yesterday my fiancee told me he has some reservations about marriage. He said he has a weird feeling about it. He can't describe it but doesn't know if it's cold feet but thinks it might be more. He told me he was sorry but he has been feeling this was for a little while and should have said something but didn't. He mentioned couples counseling but without knowing whats wrong I dont see what thats going to do. Help ! I'm a wreck . Do you think he is freaking out with cold feet or ready to call it off ?
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Re: Cold feet or is he calling it off ?

  • mrsconn23mrsconn23 member
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    We don't know your FI, so we can't say what he's thinking.  

    I think that it's a good thing that a) he told you how he feels and b) he wants to try to work it out through going to counseling.  I recommend giving  counseling a whirl and see if it helps you guys come to a mutually agreed upon decision regarding your future. 
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  • tawillerstawillers member
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    Go to the counseling.

    When is your wedding?

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  • Marho1984Marho1984 member
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    may 31, 2014 is the date
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  • Marho1984Marho1984 member
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    Thanks conn23 I figured that much
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  • JCbride2015JCbride2015 member
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    What PPs said.  Go to the counseling.
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  • zitiqueenzitiqueen member
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    Marho1984 said:
    I'm 29 and my Fiancee is 26. We have been together for 31/2 years and living together for most of that time. We have been engaged for almost 6 months now. I'd say 98% of our wedding is planned and I was addressing our save the dates just yesterday. Yesterday my fiancee told me he has some reservations about marriage. He said he has a weird feeling about it. He can't describe it but doesn't know if it's cold feet but thinks it might be more. He told me he was sorry but he has been feeling this was for a little while and should have said something but didn't. He mentioned couples counseling but without knowing whats wrong I dont see what thats going to do. Help ! I'm a wreck . Do you think he is freaking out with cold feet or ready to call it off ?

    Have you put deposits down?
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  • KatWAGKatWAG member
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    I agree that counseling (as a couple and as an individual) would be a good idea. But I would hold off on sending your STDs until things are more solid between you and your fi.
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