Hi everyone!
Little background: I am 27, my fiance is 31. We have been together 2 years and have an 8 month old daughter. We have finally decided to take the plunge and get married. This is my second wedding, I was married at 20 and divorced/separated by 24. This is his first wedding. He wants a big wedding, which is fine. I knew on my wedding day the first time around it wasn't what was right, I didn't enjoy any of it as much as I should have. I want to experience a wedding and all the planning (and shower) as if I've never been married. Most everyone knows I've been married, but really just ignores it. Is it rude for me to treat this as a first marriage? I have new friends, new family members, I think everyone would be on board, I just don't want to be rude. I don't know the etiquette for a second time wedding.