I posted last month about a friend of mine who was set on having the bridesmaids have a sleepover the night before the wedding, thus forcing dates to fend for themselves that night. The same friend just posted on the private facebook group she created for the bridesmaids, and I don't know how to respond:
I'm probably thinking way ahead, but is there any chance we're going to do any sort of Bachelorette/bridal shenanigans? I figured probably not since it'd be asking a lot for most of you to come this far twice... or if maybe we all did something the week of the wedding? But again, I don't wanna ask anybody to stay longer than they can reasonably afford. Thoughts appreciated.
The majority of the bridesmaids are out of state (me included); and honestly I'm not crazy about the idea of shelling out the money for extra nights in a hotel. I'm a little shocked at the forwardness of the whole post -- how would you respond to this?