I'm so frustrated I may go crazy. I'm getting married in the summer and I have bridesmaids in 4 states and crossing 2 countries which is no easy task. I only have 1 bridesmaid that lives in the area and she has gone off the grid for months now. She has been without a cell phone for about 3 months now because she is waiting for the new iPhone to be in stock. In addition to not being able to call her or text her, she hasn't been responding to her facebook or email messages. I've been trying to reach her through her boyfriend but he is obviously getting frustrated. (PS- her BF is supposed to be performing the wedding ceremony which has now gotten awkward.)
I have no idea what to do. I feel so hurt that she's been MIA but its not like I can talk to her about it. Her bf said to not take it personally but its hard to after several months and when emails are going around about my shower and bachlorette party. I also sent an email asking if she was ok and that I was here if something was wrong. Still no answer.
Its now at a point where I don't feel comfortable around her BF even who is my fiances friend.
What do I do? Just count her out?