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More WW Trash- PPD's

So I will admit I was lurking on WW because it's slow and boring at work and if your day is as slow and boring as mine this might bring some entertainment.

So apparently, it's not a new concept that WW condones terrible ideas, so this shouldn't shock many. I just thought I might share this. haha. :)

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Re: More WW Trash- PPD's

  • I saw this last night too. What a shitshow it is over there some days.

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  • I'm on WW, too, and for the same reason. It is a fucking TRIP.
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  • I agree. I saw those to and did the BIGGEST eye roll! lol
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  • I especially like the wedding officiant who links to her personal blog article "legal-marriage-then-social-wedding-no-its-not-a-fake-wedding" (linky)
    Can you imagine if the vendors were actually allowed to post on here?? It's bad enough now without them actually being allowed to peddle themselves up and down the page.
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  • "hey, what's the easiest way for me to lie to my family and friends, because i know what i'm doing is wrong, but IT'S MY DAY and i'm going to go ahead and do it anyway?"

     

    UUUUUUUUUUUUUUGH.

  • I can't roll my eyes hard enough at that. 
  • Emmy1493Emmy1493 member
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    @photokitty I saw that! Thinking, "You can't be serious." 

    *Immense head banging on desk*


    Agreed, like "Oh, hey, it's MY day I can lie and they wont know. Blah Blah Blah."

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  • Oh my goodness. Deceiving her family for "spiritual reasons"? Seriously?
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  • syoun1nj said:
    Anyone else think the "spiritual reason" was to have sex?
    Very, very likely! I wouldn't be surprised.
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  • syoun1nj said:
    Anyone else think the "spiritual reason" was to have sex?

    Ha!  I hadn't even considered that, because i sometimes forget that people still exist who wait until they get married to have sex...but i bet that explains a lot of PPDs actually.  Wanting to have sex, or wanting to move in together, etc.
  • syoun1nj said:
    Anyone else think the "spiritual reason" was to have sex?
    I used to be one of those girls who said she'd wait until she was married. But, nope, we have sex regularly. I don't understand how some people think when it concerns that. I understand that certain religions believe it to be a sin but come on, it's 2013. That shit don't matter anymore.
    I think it matters. If it's spiritually significant to that person, then they should certainly wait. But it sure as hell doesn't justify a hasty marriage and a PPD just so you can have religiously approved nookie!
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    TMI changed my mind :-p
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  • Wow that was gross. The hypocritical way they try to defend themselves makes me stabby. One called other people selfish. Another said the husband's family wouldn't come if they knew it was a fake wedding (I wonder why!).




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  • Wow that was gross. The hypocritical way they try to defend themselves makes me stabby. One called other people selfish. Another said the husband's family wouldn't come if they knew it was a fake wedding (I wonder why!).

    That's the one that really bothers me.  The husband's family sure as heck has a right to know, especially if they wouldn't come because it's a fake wedding.  Most of the PPDers know it's not generally acceptable to do, but they always defend themselves saying their family and friends love them SO much that they won't mind.  This one can't even justify it that way, she's just plain selfish.  I wonder how the husband feels about lying to his whole family who he knows won't approve of what he's doing...
  • It isn't only a "spiritual reason" to wait until the marriage to have sex.  I waited for other reasons.  Whoever that poster was, if they indeed meant sex, should have just said that.  It's not taboo to say stuff like that.  Our North American society is so prissy, it's ridiculous.

    That being said, it is sad that some people are "forced" into getting married early just because they believe that sex is reserved for marriage.  At that point, just have sex - waiting for marriage isn't for everyone.  Waiting paid off for me, but I feel so bad for some of the people I know that got married young just to have sex, because now they can't travel, see the world etc . . . (they also are of the school that once you are married you can't go anywhere without your husband, hence the not traveling and having adventures.  So depressing). 

  • I love how they all justify it with "nobody will mind because they love us" but then don't tell their family and friends.

    So then they get called-out on not telling these people that supposedly won't care if they find out it's fake, and they retaliate with, "Well, it's none of their business, so we aren't going to tell them, but they totally wouldn't care."

    Ok, princess.

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  • They always try to justify their crappy reasons. If your okay with lying to your family and friends about something so big like that, well I couldn't even begin to have the slightest glimmer of respect for you. Nobody will ever be okay with that. No matter how much you think, "They'll totes be fine cause I'm like the most speshul snowflake-princess bride ever!"
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