I have an issue that I have been working on trying to figure out what I want to do and I am hoping for a bit of advice. My fiance and I are currently slated to be married on August 22nd, of 2014 and I am the Groom by the way. 4 years ago, my father was diagnosed with a rare form of Cancer which he has been battling but the battle has only been to extend life, not cure the Cancer as his form of cancer is terminal and there is no cure for and we have known that. Over the last few months, his health has drastically declined and has gotten even more worse over the last few weeks and it appears that his health is deteriorating at an exponential rate. We know now that he will not be able to make it to our wedding as we question if he will even be able to make it to this Christmas. My fiance has been extremely supportive of the situation and actually brought up to me a few weeks ago that if I wanted to get married early so he could be a part of our wedding, that she had no problem with it and I just don't know what to do. We cannot cancel or move our current wedding plans for next year as it is a destination wedding in Northern Michigan (we are from the Detroit, MI area) and we already have contracts signed and deposits down for the venue, band, photographer, etc.
I am questioning now what my fiance brought up with getting married in the next few weeks, just a small ceremony at my fathers house (or possibly a hospital room) with a few close family members only. I was curious if you feel that guests of the actual wedding which we would still have in August of 2014 would consider not going to the wedding or consider it a lesser meaningful ceremony because we would have been married for almost a year at that point? I want my father to be able to see me get married before he passes, but just don't know what to treat the ceremony in August then if I have one. Any advise anyone could give would be appreciated. BTW, both of our ceremonies would be done in front of the same judge as she is a friend of the family and I am Atheist and my Fiance is Agnostic.