First marriage for both of us but we've owned our house for 2 years now and have everything we need. We are very down to Earth people and declined a shower because we honestly feel that asking for "better" items for our home is selfish. I'm just wondering if I should make some sort of registry because older, traditional guests like my grandparents are going to want to get us something (not cash). Do you think that's necessary or just verbally give my parents some ideas to pass on?