A Dollar Dance. I almost threw myself out of the car window yesterday when he mentioned it. How on earth could my dear sweet loving man want a dollar dance? Apparently, both of his older brothers and all of the rest of the family weddings have included them, and his family sees it as "fun" and "just what you do" at weddings. When I explained to him that I don't want our guests feeling like they have to give us money he realized how differently we see it. The first (and only) time I had seen one I was MOH at a shotgun wedding (yes, really) and it was the tackiest thing because they didn't allow any other dancing and didnt feed their guests anything, it was clearly the most greedy thing I had seen. And now, at our wonderfully hosted, full dinner and dancing wedding he wants to include it. I'm hoping he comes around before we really have to decide.... I guess this is more of a vent, but good gravy, I never expected him to throw this at me!