I completely understand that it is rude to take back an invitation to be in your wedding party-and honestly I don't want to even do that. Problem is, someone I asked to be a bridesmaid has changed so much that we really aren't even friends anymore. It all started when she cheated on her bf several times (He is a mutual friend from before they were even in a relationship) and evolved into excess drinking and just downright lying to her friends and family. My friends and I tried holding an intervention of sorts because we truly were concerned about her. She continued to lie to us and in several instances has only finally told the truth when she was caught red-handed in a lie. My FH absolutely does not like her and didn't want her in the wedding to start with so all this has just led to more dislike and saying she should be removed. To make matters even more difficult she will be moving 4 states away next month (with the bf she cheated on). I really value honesty and the fact that I can't trust anything she tells me makes our relationship strained at best. She also holds it against me for trying to step to intervene during the situation. I know she still intends to be in the wedding because she came bridesmaid dress shopping but the whole time it was miserable. I guess, after all this, I'm just looking for advice on what the next step would be in fixing this situation.