Hi everyone! I wanted to introduce myself in hopes that I can become an active member of this community. My name is Sarah and I am in a relationship. We're going on 4 years together this February. I'm 33 years old, so I've been waiting (not so) patiently! Ha. I live in Rochester, NY. I have been ready for marriage and kids for a while now, but I fell for a younger guy who is very career driven, which has caused me to have to keep waiting. Supposedly the time is coming, but he has been saying that for awhile now, and actions speak louder than words. I'd love to believe that he is ready for the commitment and the future, but time will tell I suppose!
I will complete this survey so that you can get to know a little bit more about me.
Screen Name: SgrPlum12
Age: 33
Significant Other's Age: 30
What You Do: High School Math Teacher (Algebra and Geometry)
What SO Does: Finance Manager of a huge wine company
State of Relationship: Living Together (I own the house)
How Long You've Been Together: almost 4 years
How You Met: Match.com
Wedding Date (if you're engaged/married): No date until we're actually engaged. I'm hoping 2015.
Real Babies: None yet, but getting baby fever. (waiting until marriage though)
Fur Babies: My cat Ollie (long haired orange crazy kitty)
Loves: my family, friends, music, cats, great weather, running outside, reading, ,watching tv, food
Hates: Abuse, neglect, corruption, lying
Pet Peeves: when people don't reach their full potential, friends who don't keep in touch
Hobbies/Activities: cooking, photography, playing on my iPad, surfing the internet, singing, riding my bike in the summer, hanging out with family and friends
Favorite Thing About Your SO: He is very level-headed and doesn't let emotions take over.
Least Favorite Thing About Your SO: He is very level-headed and not as emotional as I am. (Sometimes you want to see your SO let himself get emotional)
Describe Your Personality: I am very passionate and intense in everything I do. I try to help my loved ones as much as I can. I am a hard worker and a perfectionist at times. I love deeply and have a big appreciation for the little things in life.
Snark Level (1 [low snark] - 10 [high snark]): Sorry, no idea what this means. Maybe a 5???
I've Been On TK Since: I was on TK 5 years ago, when I was engaged to someone else at that time. The relationship came crashing down and blew up in my face. I was single for about a year before I met SO.
How You Came to Be On TK: I think I knew about it from friends who were getting married.
How I like my potatoes: sweet potatoes are the best, with just a little bit of greek yogurt (sour cream substitute). Or baked sweet potato fries!
Favorite book/author: I love chick lit. Emily Giffin is great. I also just got into Gillian Flynn. Love Mindy Kaling's new book "Is Everyone Hanging Out Without Me" also.
Tell Us Something Interesting About Yourself: My parents were born and raised in Italy. They both moved here when they were 17 and didn't speak a word of English. They both came here with nothing, and started working and saving money and have come so far. They came here separately and didn't meet until they both lived here in Rochester, NY. They speak perfect English now (with accents). They stressed the importance of education since they were unable to finish their schooling (had to go to work for their poor families) and I have a lot of respect for them. A lot of my extended family never moved to America, so they live in Italy and I miss them always. I have been to Italy 4 times to visit them, although that isn't nearly enough.