My fiance's father getting remarried. It was very sudden and no one is happy. They are having a very large wedding in very expensive venue. Do we give a gift? My fiance's brother is not even giving a card, he said his father should be happy he is even coming. We have no problem giving a card with nothing in it and sitting there pretending to be happy. But does that mean that we will not get a gift from his father for our wedding in 6 months? His parents have only been divorced for about a year. My fiance, his brothers, and his mother are not even over the divorce yet so this wedding is not sitting well with anyone. We have no idea what to do and the wedding is this weekend please help. (Also, we don't really have much money because we're a young couple planning our own wedding.)