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Isn't that creepy?

I couldn't sleep and I was bored so I decided to do some late night grocery shopping. It had to get done and what better time to do it then when no one else (or very few people) are at the store.

Anyway, I was at the checkout and the cashier noticed my engagement ring. She stated how she thought it was really pretty. I thanked her. She asked where FI got it from and I told her that it actually belonged to my grandmother on my dad's side and he gave it to my FI when FI asked my father for his blessing. 

The cashier got a weird look on her face but didn't say anything. 

At this point the lady in line behind me, blurted out "Seriously? Your grandmother's ring? Isn't that creepy?". I noticed from the corner of my eye that the cashier was nodding in agreement to the customer behind me. 

Before I had a chance to answer, the lady turns to her daughter who is maybe 16 at the time and says "hunny, please tell me you don't want to wear your grandmother's ring when you get engaged". Her daughter gets a smirk on her face and tells her mom "I would be honored to wear grandma's ring when I get engaged. I think it's sweet" and then winked at me as she went back to doing whatever it was on her phone. I couldn't help but smile as her mom had a look of shock on her face.

I wanted to say something but I figured nothing I could say at this point would compare to the shock from her daughter. The cashier wouldn't look at me after that either.

Re: Isn't that creepy?

  • First off, I think it is really sweet that your engagement ring was your grandmothers. It is a nice way to honor her memory. I've gotten a little critism for my ring because it is an antique. Someone even told me that they thought it was bad luck. I used to just tell people that this is the ring I wanted and that I love it. Now I say that I'm very environmentally conscious and that I didn't feel the need to own a blood diamond to celebrate our love. This usually makes people feel guilty. Lol. Of course none of that is true, my fiancé picked my ring because I love emeralds and he thought the band was a little Celtic looking. Lol.
  • hlvonb said:
    I couldn't sleep and I was bored so I decided to do some late night grocery shopping. It had to get done and what better time to do it then when no one else (or very few people) are at the store.

    Anyway, I was at the checkout and the cashier noticed my engagement ring. She stated how she thought it was really pretty. I thanked her. She asked where FI got it from and I told her that it actually belonged to my grandmother on my dad's side and he gave it to my FI when FI asked my father for his blessing. 

    The cashier got a weird look on her face but didn't say anything. 

    At this point the lady in line behind me, blurted out "Seriously? Your grandmother's ring? Isn't that creepy?". I noticed from the corner of my eye that the cashier was nodding in agreement to the customer behind me. 

    Before I had a chance to answer, the lady turns to her daughter who is maybe 16 at the time and says "hunny, please tell me you don't want to wear your grandmother's ring when you get engaged". Her daughter gets a smirk on her face and tells her mom "I would be honored to wear grandma's ring when I get engaged. I think it's sweet" and then winked at me as she went back to doing whatever it was on her phone. I couldn't help but smile as her mom had a look of shock on her face.

    I wanted to say something but I figured nothing I could say at this point would compare to the shock from her daughter. The cashier wouldn't look at me after that either.
    A 16 year old with more sense and tact than her mother?! Even with her nose in her smartphone...gotta love it!!!! Bless that sweet teenager!

    I mean FFS what adult thinks they can just blurt out an opinion over someone's family heirloom and symbol of unity? People are so rude. I think it's not only sweet but it's a great honor to be able to wear a piece of your family history. It is wonderful that your parents passed down that treasure to your FI for you to wear proudly for him and for your family.

    I bet your grandmother would tell that lady to mind her damn business and that she is proud that you wear her ring.
  • People need to think before they speak sometimes.
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  • Agree with PPs.  It is sweet and sentimental not creepy.  My brother is currently considering using the diamond from our grandmom's ring when the time comes.  I think his GF would love it not find it creepy.
  • I am super sentimental, like overly so, so I don't think it's creepy at all. And how fucking rude!? Good for her daughter for shutting it down. I'm not very witty but I can't control my facial expressions, so I just end up just looking at people like they're stupid, which clearly that woman is.
  • That's not creepy at all. And it seems like it's pretty common. 

    Conversations like this make me happy I live in New York. Most times, people just don't talk to each other :-P 
  • It's not creepy at all! Like PP's said, unless they dug her up to get it, it's wonderfully sweet.

    I think that if grandma got divorced from or broke up with the ring-giver (probably grandpa, in this case) there might be some bad juju though...
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  • missax said:
    I fail to see how it is creepy to wear a sentimental ring. It's not like people are running around graveyards and digging up relatives to get their engagement rings. I hope my future granddaughter (or grand daughter-in-law ?) would want to wear my ring.

    @missax

    I have no idea how it is creepy either. I LOVE the fact that I have my grandmother's ring.

  • jdluvr06 said:
    First off, I think it is really sweet that your engagement ring was your grandmothers. It is a nice way to honor her memory. I've gotten a little critism for my ring because it is an antique. Someone even told me that they thought it was bad luck. I used to just tell people that this is the ring I wanted and that I love it. Now I say that I'm very environmentally conscious and that I didn't feel the need to own a blood diamond to celebrate our love. This usually makes people feel guilty. Lol. Of course none of that is true, my fiancé picked my ring because I love emeralds and he thought the band was a little Celtic looking. Lol.

    @jdluvr06

    That's funny!

  • The things people say to perfect strangers astounds me.


    @alisonmarie658

    Same here. I was shocked when she said that.

  • aefitz29 said:
    hlvonb said:
    I couldn't sleep and I was bored so I decided to do some late night grocery shopping. It had to get done and what better time to do it then when no one else (or very few people) are at the store.

    Anyway, I was at the checkout and the cashier noticed my engagement ring. She stated how she thought it was really pretty. I thanked her. She asked where FI got it from and I told her that it actually belonged to my grandmother on my dad's side and he gave it to my FI when FI asked my father for his blessing. 

    The cashier got a weird look on her face but didn't say anything. 

    At this point the lady in line behind me, blurted out "Seriously? Your grandmother's ring? Isn't that creepy?". I noticed from the corner of my eye that the cashier was nodding in agreement to the customer behind me. 

    Before I had a chance to answer, the lady turns to her daughter who is maybe 16 at the time and says "hunny, please tell me you don't want to wear your grandmother's ring when you get engaged". Her daughter gets a smirk on her face and tells her mom "I would be honored to wear grandma's ring when I get engaged. I think it's sweet" and then winked at me as she went back to doing whatever it was on her phone. I couldn't help but smile as her mom had a look of shock on her face.

    I wanted to say something but I figured nothing I could say at this point would compare to the shock from her daughter. The cashier wouldn't look at me after that either.
    A 16 year old with more sense and tact than her mother?! Even with her nose in her smartphone...gotta love it!!!! Bless that sweet teenager!

    I mean FFS what adult thinks they can just blurt out an opinion over someone's family heirloom and symbol of unity? People are so rude. I think it's not only sweet but it's a great honor to be able to wear a piece of your family history. It is wonderful that your parents passed down that treasure to your FI for you to wear proudly for him and for your family.

    I bet your grandmother would tell that lady to mind her damn business and that she is proud that you wear her ring.

    @aefitz29

    Right! I couldn't believe how tactful the teenager was. She must have inherited her father's genes when it came to that. Lol.

    I love the fact that I get to wear my grandmother's engagement ring. Heck, my wedding band was hers too. In hindsight, I should have told the mother and cashier that too - they probably would have fainted. Lol

    My grandmother would have said something that's for sure. She was a full blooded German woman so it would have been interesting to hear what would have come out of her mouth.

  • chibiyui said:
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    As long as nobody dug up grandma to get her ring, then no it's not creepy. I agree with the 16 year old its very sweet. 

    It was completely rude of that lady to comment that. Good thing the snark is strong in her daughter. 

    @chibiyui


    I agree. I love the snarkiness in the daughter.

  • vk2204 said:
    People need to think before they speak sometimes.


    @vk2204

    This is so so true

  • Agree with PPs.  It is sweet and sentimental not creepy.  My brother is currently considering using the diamond from our grandmom's ring when the time comes.  I think his GF would love it not find it creepy.

    @audubonbride2013

    I bet she would love it!

  • I am super sentimental, like overly so, so I don't think it's creepy at all. And how fucking rude!? Good for her daughter for shutting it down. I'm not very witty but I can't control my facial expressions, so I just end up just looking at people like they're stupid, which clearly that woman is.

    @misssunshine17

    Yes, yes she is

  • That's not creepy at all. And it seems like it's pretty common. 

    Conversations like this make me happy I live in New York. Most times, people just don't talk to each other :-P 

    @ClimbingBrideNY

    LOL

  • It's not creepy at all! Like PP's said, unless they dug her up to get it, it's wonderfully sweet.

    I think that if grandma got divorced from or broke up with the ring-giver (probably grandpa, in this case) there might be some bad juju though...

    @s-aries8990

    No bad juju with this ring. Lol

  • Just for the record, I don't think it is creepy. I love it. Lol
  • I wear my grandmothers engagement ring (not as my engagement ring but on the other hand... but still). I really don't see how that's at all creepy? Everyone who has ever asked about mine thought it was really cool that we still have it - I think you just encountered some strange people!
  • I wear my grandmothers engagement ring (not as my engagement ring but on the other hand... but still). I really don't see how that's at all creepy? Everyone who has ever asked about mine thought it was really cool that we still have it - I think you just encountered some strange people!
    @Lavender123

    They really were weird. Lol
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