i am going crazy!!!! i never envisioned my groom wanting to be SOOOO involved in the wedding planning! he is a damn bridezilla....groomzilla! i'm sorry to anyone religious but we have to get married at his church cuz he is greek orthodox and thats where his family was all married so i have come to terms w/ that...but then we found a reception location that is (yes offering discounts here and there but...) charging an arm and a leg still, i think. its also not really what i had in mind or my taste...its kinda gaudy just like the church is. i found an american legion venue nearby that is beautiful (and way cheap!)...all hardwood everything but we have to bring everything in unlike the other all inclusive (all expensive) place. and then he has the nerve to say that maybe we should find a place that we can rent our centerpieces even though he knows i am and have been working on them. i always thought wedding planning would be fun, but he is just making it stressful and i kinda wish he'd turn into most of the other uninvolved grooms!!! thanks for listening...i just needed to rant!