I was the maid of honor in my sisters wedding. Naturally it is assumed she will be in mine as well...which I DO want her to be. But I also have a really close friend that I want as my matron of honor as well. She has been my friend/sister/mother all rolled into one person. My family thinks it's rude of me to have two MOH and that my sister would be really hurt if I asked my friend as well but I think my friend would also be a little hurt. I don't know what to do because I want them both. When it comes down to it, my sister would be the first one standing by my side during the ceremony so does that mean I should just have my sister and have my friend be the next in line and kind of explain the situation to her?