I would appreciate any advice people have on setting a wedding date. My fiance and I have hit a lot of bumps along the way since our engagement, as far as choosing a date. We are finally to the stage where we are able to set an official date but we are both worry-warts and struggle with our limited options. We have decided to get married in Indianapolis where I work and my fiance is a full-time student. But! All of his family will be traveling here from Fort Wayne, IN (2 hrs north of us) and all of my family will be traveling from Traverse City, MI (7.5 hrs north of us at the very top of the Michigan).
Because my fiance is a full-time student and we both prefer to have a honeymoon immediately following the wedding, we probably have to choose a date during a school break. My fiance is worried about a Spring Break wedding because he would have tests/hw/projects due immediately upon return. That really only leaves a winter break wedding which makes me feel guilty for making family travel in the dead of the winter, or waiting until the following summer of 2015. My fiance strongly prefers not to be engaged for 2 years, so he feels that winter break is as far out as he wants to push the wedding. We could set a date for this coming summer as well (August would still be do-able as far as planning, however the reception venue I love and can afford is not available until after the school semester has started in August). Even in August, I worry about having enough time to plan anyway. Plus, my fiance is a Marine and we would have to work around his 2 week summer drilling schedule (usually don't find out exactly when it is until a couple months before).
A LOT GOING ON! Did anybody else ever have this much trouble just picking the date?!!? Any suggestions/feedback? Thanks a ton!!!