Our wedding is at the end of May and I have no idea where to go.   Neither of us have been out of the country or even on a really nice vacation like this.    I was originally thinking about Greece, but with only 5 months left before the wedding, and having no clue where to even start with planning, I just don't know!   We are flying out of NY and I would like to stay around $5-6000.   I like beaches and relaxation my fiancée likes sight seeing, culture, food, etc.  so I want somewhere we can relax but also get out and do/see stuff.  I've thought about a cruise, so we can go to a couple locations, but not sure...I hear both people who love them and who hate them.   and I know there is a lot to do on a cruise ship...but it doesn't seem like stuff we can't do anywhere.  I think I'd rather actually being somewhere doing something not just on a boat at sea.   any suggestions?!