Are programs required? Are menus required? I am not sure that I want to go through the trouble of creating these, but wanted to know if these are things the guests might think are standard and will expect them. Maybe I can get a one page listing of the wedding party and a word or two about the religious traditions we will have as part of the ceremony. The food we are planning is self-serve buffet, so I don't feel like a menu is needed. Any thoughts or advice?