Hello all, my dad passed away when I was 14 and my mom has recently remarried. I adore my stepfather however, how to I give my dad a place at the ceremony? I am carrying down a locket of his ashes and my mom is walking me down but I wanted to place a rose in the seat he would have been in. Would that go in the first seat of the pew or after my mom and stepdad? My grandma died a few months after my father did, and I would like to do a rose placement for her too, would I put that one in the pew behind the parents of the 1st row as well?