When my parents got married they had a cash bar and did the dollar dance.... now that it is my turn my mom is convinced that this is okay.... I've tried multiple times to explain to her that it is not but she won't listen. I would prefer a dry wedding with no dollar dance. The dollar dance really isn't much of an issue as long as I get to the dj before she does. It is the cash bar debacle that I have a problem with. Every time I talk to her about the venue she belittles me about it. I've gotten to the point that I don't even want to talk to her about my wedding anymore. It's terrible! Any advice on how to explain it to her in a way that she would understand?