So we had a date picked out now we are having some second thoughts. I'm asking you ladies because I lurk and you always give me something to think about.
We know we want to be married next December (2014), because my FI is in school and doesn't get a break next summer at all (the week after finals he starts rotations) and isn't even guaranteed Christmas off next year (2015) and we won't know his interview schedules and rotation schedules enough to warn his family. So unless we wait until after graduation (and we won't know his schedule for internship/residency until spring '16) which is 2.5 years away, December 2014 is our best bet.
We recognize some people may not be able to make it or may not want to make it, but we are trying to maximize attendees with what we have. It won't be a problem for most of our local guests and our VIPs but for out of town guests we are worried. Just to be clear, we understand that by having a winter wedding we may lose out of towners but we hope to make it somewhat convenient. We know what Venue we are using and they have openings on the 20th and 27th and 28th of December.
--If we want the 20th we will have to pay more, but we figured that would be more inconvenient, people will be just out of school (they get out on the 19th) and still shopping/thinking about Christmas.
--The 27th would be amazing, but I'm worried it only give the 26th to travel and people may just not want to go. We love the 27th (a Saturday) because most people will have that friday off work and it is my parent's anniversary so it would be super meaningful for us. We talked to them and they were thrilled by the idea.
--The 28th we also thought about because it gave the people who really wanted to come an extra day after Christmas to travel. We could have an awesome rehearsal dinner the day before and anniversary dinner too, which could be cool! But it is a Sunday and people may have to take Monday off to travel back, which would be inconvenient
I don't know. What do you guys think? It is less of a deal for my family since I talked to my aunts and uncles and the ones that can attend will be here early for Christmas.
Again, we recognize that we will lose some attendees due to the holidays but I think the important ones (my parents, brother, MOH, BM, his brother, and my friends) will be able to attend.