Guest Drama

Soon2bStaff · May 2012

LONGGGGG story short - I have a friend who is making bad desicions in life and I do not want to be a part of them! We havent talked talked since February 2011 but have been friends since middle school. I was feeling bad like she would be sad if she wasnt invited so I invited her... I get a message this morning completely crappy saying she can't believe I only reserved one seat. I'm not even going into why I only put 1 seat but it's MY WEDDING!!!!! Now, an hour later she is still bitching through text! I regret even sending the invitation now!!!!

enchantedonyx · May 2012

oh yuck. maybe she won't come then? I would ignore her texts.

geojam224 · May 2012

Ugh what a drag. I would tell her that you only have room in the budget for one and if she isn't ok with coming by herself, then she doesn't need to come, but you would like for her to suck it up and be there for you at your wedding. You were right to invite her though, I think. It's just polite. She doesn't need to come or even get you a gift.

mandi921vh · May 2012

Does she have a S/O she is thinking should be invited or was she thinking of bringing a date?

Soon2bStaff · May 2012

She just didnt want to go alone... which is understandable but I didn't want to leave the plus one open to where she could bring someone I DO NOT LIKE NOR EVER WANT TO SEE IN THIS LIFETIME... he is a bad bad man and I didn't want to leave that gate open for her to bring him. I guess they aren't hanging out anymore (thank goodness) but I've had other guests ask if they can bring someone and I say sure. It's just the way she asked... she said (I quote) can't believe how ignorant it is... you are telling this to the bride... umm NO! I don't think she is coming so no worries for me that she would cause drama with one of my bridesmaid!

AurorasEnvy · May 2012

Ugh, like PPs said...I'd just ignore it. If she shows up, great. I have a good friend from HS who has been on/off with the same guy for 7 YEARS. And by on/off I mean that they mess around but he won't ever commit to being her official boyfriend. We've all given up telling her what we think, just have to wait for the semi-annual "I am never talking to XXXXXX again!", sobbing, and depression that comes with it.

Some people just like to keep making the same mistakes.

Soon2bStaff · May 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_may-2012-weddings_guest-drama?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20Club%20BoardsForum:f0ca0bc1-9255-4120-8042-b40e7f3e99c5Discussion:f8f12885-9d03-49d1-8932-8db3f99ce192Post:06669bef-1a4a-4c9f-afb9-79d535961f45">Re: Guest Drama</a>:
[QUOTE]Ugh, like PPs said...I'd just ignore it. If she shows up, great. I have a good friend from HS who has been on/off with the same guy for 7 YEARS. And by on/off I mean that they mess around but he won't ever commit to being her official boyfriend. We've all given up telling her what we think, just have to wait for the semi-annual "I am never talking to XXXXXX again!", sobbing, and depression that comes with it. <strong>Some people just like to keep making the same mistakes.</strong>
Posted by AurorasEnvy[/QUOTE]

<div>...TRUE statement!!!</div>

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