Our rustic wedding will be in a barn next November. We'll be playing music like Colbie Caillat, Coldplay, John Mayer, etc. for dinner. I am not a country music fan, and since my fiance and I were born in 1989 and 1990 I thought it would be fun to have cocktail music that has been popular throughout our lives. I was thinking we'd pick our favorite song from each year ('89-2014) or just our favorites over the time period. Would this alienate the older and younger than 1990s crowd? I don't want to play all music popular now, or all older music (I like Frank Sinatra but I don't think that type of music would be right for a barn). Any ideas would be helpful!