So my FI, God love him, tells me that they are going to the Dominican Republic for his bachelor party. I didn't get upset because I thought it was hilarious. Then I realized he was serious...our honey moon isn't even planned yet, its his task, and he's planning to leave the country to galavant with his friends. When that hit me I was not a happy camper. He and I have never been out of the country, much less on a real vacation together, so it kind of hurt my feelings that that took priority for him, over making plans for us and how we'd spend our first week as a married couple. When I asked him about it he said he was going regardless of how it made me feel.
Now before you guys say I shouldn't marry him, he came to his senses, but this is generally how he handles things. He says something stupid and kind of mean in reaction to conflict and then later realizes how stupid and mean it was. Was I wrong for feeling slighted by his plans to go to D.R.?