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NWR: Emotional Wreck

pumpkinsandturkeyspumpkinsandturkeys member
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Sooo... I just had to speak with a co-worker about something that annoyed/frustrated me (moreso with the third-party involved than with him), and partway through the conversation, I started CRYING.

WTF??

And then the crying stopped, and he told me later on in the conversation that his wife also got emotional when they planned their wedding (he just got married in Oct) so he understands, and he proceeded to ask how the planning is going. And then I started crying again! Seriously??

I know it's been a long week, but overall, this is FAR from the most stressful life has been and everything is still well within my control. So what's the deal?

So, so embarrassing.


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  • melbelleupmelbelleup member
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    Awe it's okay. I cry randomly sometimes too. Don't worry about it too much, you'll be okay :)
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  • Emmy1493Emmy1493 member
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    I understand. I am an  emotional blob right now as well. It tends to happen more frequent than I would like, but it's nice to cry it out. Just stinks when it's in front of someone you don't wanna cry to.
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  • Chipmunk415Chipmunk415 member
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    I started crying last night when FI couldn't decide on apps for cocktail hour, and is still insisting on a damn cheese fondue (I have visions of the outdoor cocktail hour ending up with folks splattered with cheese from the wind). He finally got super immature about it, and I nearly threw my notebook of planning stuff at his head and burst into tears.

    I feel ya.

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  • climbingsingleclimbingsingle member
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    *hugs* I find that I've been extra weepy lately. 
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  • PolarBearFitzPolarBearFitz member
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    edited January 2014
    Girl, I cried at work last week!  ***HUGS, WINE, AND CHOCOLATES***

    My crying was mostly because my client yelled at me 3 days in a row for things that had nothing to do with me, plus add PMS, and the fact that I couldn't take it anymore.

    Wedding planning makes me anxious and stressed. I have found out that I am really not a fan of planning weddings. There are parts I like and get excited about but often times getting off work only to have to go plan things makes me feel like I'm working non-stop. It's exhausting.
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  • SenecafSenecaf member
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    I've been good recently. I hardly cry but I did cry at the gym a few months ago. I was very stressed about work and the weights were too heavy lol.

    I HATE crying. In a sad movie, no, that is normal. Any other time, super embarassing.
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  • afox007afox007 member
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    I was crying last night because FI wanted a band instead of a DJ and for some reason the thought of our song being a cover triggered the waterworks. He poured me a glass of wine thankfully.
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  • BlergbotBlergbot member
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    I slumped into a depression post holiday and have done my share of bursting into tears lately. I feel you.
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  • CokezerofreakCokezerofreak member
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    With all the drama my sister was putting me through with the wedding, parents taking her side and work sucking overall, I got myself some happy pills.  Fixed me right up!  Don't mean to joke about it, I knew I needed it and I'm not a pill popper.  Doctor gave me the smallest dosage possible.  I plan on getting off of them right after the honeymoon.
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  • jdluvr06jdluvr06 member
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    Its ok. Everyone needs a good cry sometimes.
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  • blabla89blabla89 member
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    It's okay. You're allowed to cry. I know in front of your coworker isn't the ideal place for it to happen, but don't sweat it. I find that when I'm stressed out about something big, it manifests in my reaction to minor things. Make sure you're making time for yourself to just relax once in a while.

    ETA: I too have cried about office frustrations.
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  • easilyunamusedeasilyunamused member
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    edited January 2014
    Jennja22 said:
    I cried over the most RIDICULOUS thing the other day:

    I have my own "room" at our house (Fiance's house) and I love it, because I have my bed (which I loved, but couldn't use in master bedroom, so it doubles as a guest bed) and I don't have to share a closet and it just gives me some "me" space.  But no TV in there.  We only have a TV in the living room, not our bedroom.  

    So, the other day I spent most of the day controlling the remote, watching a Law & Order: SVU (he hates it!) marathon.  I was about to hand over the remote because I thought that I had subjected him to enough for one day, and then I saw (omg I don't even want to type this) that "Aftershock: Heidi & Spencer" was about to come on E!.  (backstory- I really wanted to watch that, but missed it when it was first on, and we don't have a dvr) So then i realized that I couldn't make him watch that, too, after a full day of L&O:SVU.... so I burst into tears.  Yes, I cried over Heidi Montag & Spencer Pratt.  

    He set up another TV in my room that very moment. :)
    OMG, @jennja22, not to thread jack but did you watch that show? Her crying about the future kids in the pumpkin patch killed me. Like you haven't had that conversation BEFORE without cameras there? To me, it solidified that they are not the greatest people still. 
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  • pumpkinsandturkeyspumpkinsandturkeys member
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    Thank you so much everyone! It was a pretty shitty morning, but then a couple of coworkers made it their mission to make me laugh all afternoon, and the conference call with a customer that I thought was going to be horrendous actually went well :)

    I'm glad I'm not the only irrationally weepy one!


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