My wedding is July 19, 2014 at the Tropicana. Our wedding coordinator said she needs the final head count of guests 6-8 weeks before the wedding. I was planning on sending out my invitations next month, is that too early? Also, I was going to put May 1 for the RSVP by date, so that it puts it before the date of the final head count. Next, should I put the wedding website on the invitation? I wasn't planning on it since it was on the save the date and we are in pretty close contact with all of the people we are inviting so if they need the discount code for the hotel or if they want additional information on our weekend events we can always remind them to check the website. I think it may look tacky if I can include it on the invitation, especially since it was on the save the date. Okay, last question: I wanted to put on the RSVP card "will attend" or "will celebrate from afar" after an idea I saw on Pinterest. However, my fiance worries that it will be confusing to our guests and that they will think the ceremony will be broadcasted live over the internet, which it will not be. Does that wording sound confusing? Maybe I should stick to "will attend" or "will not attend"