I kind of like the idea of my brides going out and getting a non bridesmaid dress in the color navy. I have a hard time with my girls buying something for my day and never wearing it again. And then, one dress will never be to everyone's liking. I have plus size bridesmaids and two pregnant brides, so to get one dress that will look good on all of them, will be tricky. I just don't want them going rogue. I would like them to get a nice dress (spend between $100-$150). And I would like them to get in a nice material and lightweight (chiffon, or brushed cotton etc... as the wedding is in July.) I do not want them wearing cheap cotton sundresses. Will this look like a hot mess? I want my photos to look nice, but I don't want to be demanding. And if they were to get a nicer bridesmaid dress, those cost at least $200 (not really crazy abut David's Bridal). Would you let them get a dress on their own, or is that why they have bridesmaid dresses? Again, I am not criticizing any bride that likes all of the things I dislike. It is just my personal problem with weddings. I feel it turns your bridesmaids into cardboard cutouts when they all have their own shapes and styles.