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Friends broke up - What's the etiquette for invites?

A pair of my Fiance's friends had been together for about 6 years but broke up shortly before Christmas. He has only ever known them as a couple and would like them both at the wedding. Is there a key to inviting them as individuals? With guests? Without guess? They will both know a good number of people at the wedding and we really want to avoid "picking sides".

Re: Friends broke up - What's the etiquette for invites?

  • @sharasen

    You would send each of them their own invitation and give each of them a plus one so they can bring a guest if they want to.
  • You can send each of them an invitation. If they don't have to travel to the wedding and you're not generally inviting plus ones unless the guest is in a serious relationship, then you may not have to extend an invitation to a guest (I'm not sure how this stands etiquette wise, but that's how we'd do it in my circle of friends). That being said, if all other guests get a plus one or they have to travel a far distance to attend the wedding, you may want to give them a plus one and hope that they'll be civil.
  • Send them each an invitation. You do not have to allow them +1s if you are not allowing other singles to have +1s. If you are, then, yes, they should get a +1 (or be invited with their new SO if such is the case).
    What did you think would happen if you walked up to a group of internet strangers and told them to get shoehorned by their lady doc?~StageManager14
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  • Send them each their own invitation.  If they have new SOs, invite the new SOs as well.
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