Hi Knotties, I'm a newbie to the boards so please be kind!
My good friend and I decided on the same venue--completely independently from one another. Fortunately I had not yet put down a deposit when I found out that she had booked it for her wedding, which is several months before mine. I had resolved to find a different venue, but I have found that my options are very limited (my fiance's family is kosher and we need a venue that can accommodate a glatt kosher reception). Although we are in each other's bridal parties, we do not have a lot of overlap in our guest lists, with the exception of our bridesmaids.
My friend says that she has no issue with us both using the same location, but is it inappropriate to book my reception in the same venue?