can't breathe

marcellah · February 2012

I just had a mini-panic attack realizing that we have approximately 2.5 months. 0.o

em01092 · February 2012

Dude don't feel bad. I just broke down and cried for 10 minutes. I am so overwhelemed and I feel like FI doesn't get it. He has kind of been irritating me lately about saying he'll do X and then not going it. Like he said he would get the GMs gifts this week and he didn't. I could tell when I asked him about it last week, he was very snippy.

He also needs to make a dentist appointment, and keeps telling me he will take care of it. I hate putting things off until the last minute, and I don't want either of us to be swamped the week of the wedding when we can do these things now. He just is more of a sit back and do it whenever kind of person. I told him I have no issue calling and making the appointment for him ( I just need his insurance info so I can find a place that will take him), but he can't just decide to go to the dentist 3 days before the wedding. He needs to make an appointment, and March/April are usually harder to get in because of kids and their spring breaks. UGH

inhisname2010 · February 2012

Hey hey hey....cut that out....NO PANIC ATTACKS!!! Everything will be great...just envision yourself saying your vows to your man...that all that counts...telling him how much you love him in front of those you love the most....now BREATHE!!! In and out slowly...I hope you feel better

cgielow · February 2012

Me too - exciting but scary all at the same time! Where did the time go??

laurmd · February 2012

I know exactly how you feel! I just try to ground myself and put it all into perspective.

Erica - I know how you feel too... I'm very "type A" and FI is more laid back and will wait for later to complete tasks. At the end of the day, they love us and will do anything for us. I understand your frustration with him not getting the groomsmen gifts on time. As far as the dentist appointment goes, it would be his own fault if he can't get in before the week of the wedding. Its fine if you call.. but I think if you make one concession, youre more likely to be doing things lke that in the future. THats fine if you want to and have time to, but personally my FI is responsible for himself. I'll help him out if he asks but I don't want to be like his mother, KWIM?

em01092 · February 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_april-2012-weddings_cant-breathe?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20Club%20BoardsForum:05427f07-4ba2-44d6-9271-99a7af1ee5c0Discussion:df7fb446-f925-4653-920d-d676a2184b63Post:e06915ea-d6ee-4e99-8212-5d3758c24fae">Re: *can't breathe*</a>:
[QUOTE]I know exactly how you feel! I just try to ground myself and put it all into perspective. Erica - I know how you feel too... I'm very "type A" and FI is more laid back and will wait for later to complete tasks. At the end of the day, they love us and will do anything for us. I understand your frustration with him not getting the groomsmen gifts on time. As far as the dentist appointment goes, it would be his own fault if he can't get in before the week of the wedding. <strong>Its fine if you call.. but I think if you make one concession, youre more likely to be doing things lke that in the future.</strong> THats fine if you want to and have time to, but personally my FI is responsible for himself. I'll help him out if he asks but I don't want to be like his mother, KWIM?
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<div>I honestly don't mind doing it this time or every time, really. I guess that does make me sound like his mom or his secretary, but I know if I do it, it will get done! haha. He just won't look up the information I need to call around. We're taking care of it next week when I get a chance to go see him. </div>

Trixeetrix · February 2012

Erica I can totally relate to you right now!! FI keeps saying "oh it will get done" - like the wedding fairy will take care of it while we are sleeping LOL. It drives me insane - but I still love him.

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