My fiancée and I have decided to have my brother and his sister in our wedding party. However, we want his sister to be on his side and my brother to be on my side. When I add them to our wedding website as wedding party members, they can only be added as "bridesmaid" and "groomsman" or "other". What's that about? With all the discussions about how it's acceptable to have a guy on the girl's side and a girl on the guy's side, why isn't there an option for a bridesman or a groomswoman (or, in this case, best woman)? Or at least make an option where you can type in their role yourself, instead of selecting from a list. Catch up with the times, please, The Knot!