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Groomswoman

My fiance and I are each having members of the opposite standing on our side.  I have a bridesman and he is having a groomswoman.  Should the groomswoman be wearing the same dress as the bridesmaids or something different?

Re: Groomswoman

  • AJuliaNJAJuliaNJ member
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    edited March 2013
    It's up to you (or you might ask her how she feels about it). I've only been to one wedding with a groomswoman and she wore a black dress. If you are doing matching BM dresses, it might be nice to have her get the same one in black. I don't know if there are any written "rules" for this.
  • Simply FatedSimply Fated member
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    edited March 2013
    There are no clear rules for this. She can match the bridesmaids, where a similar dress, wear a completely different dress, wear a dress that compliments the groomsmen or, hell, wear the same thing as the groomsmen.
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  • AddieCakeAddieCake member
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    edited March 2013
    Ask her what she wants to wear. Ours opted for a skirt suit to match my husband. She wears a lot of men's clothes in her daily life, so she also wanted to wear a tie. 
    What did you think would happen if you walked up to a group of internet strangers and told them to get shoehorned by their lady doc?~StageManager14
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  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_wedding-party_groomswoman-1?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:37Discussion:cc5ce2c0-9734-4eea-b28c-f923c0d003a8Post:fb942eec-f549-4489-8ce8-f4ecc87ac0d7">Re: Groomswoman</a>:
    [QUOTE]Ask her what she wants to wear. Ours opted for a skirt suit to match my husband. She wears a lot of men's clothes in her daily life, so she also wanted to wear a tie. 
    Posted by AddieL73[/QUOTE]

    <div>I see that in your signature. It worked out very well. I like how everyone coordinates and how her shirt matches the flowers. Everyone looks very pretty!</div>
  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_wedding-party_groomswoman-1?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:37Discussion:cc5ce2c0-9734-4eea-b28c-f923c0d003a8Post:f367a3f6-ec69-48e5-8295-af4a83a19411">Re: Groomswoman</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Groomswoman : I see that in your signature. It worked out very well. I like how everyone coordinates and how her shirt matches the flowers. Everyone looks very pretty!
    Posted by AndreaJulia[/QUOTE]


    Thank you! Orange is her favorite color, so she was thrilled!
    What did you think would happen if you walked up to a group of internet strangers and told them to get shoehorned by their lady doc?~StageManager14
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  • We each had two girls and two guys on our side, so all of the girls matched and all of the guys matched and it looked great. Addie, I do love the look of your wedding party, though! This is ours:
  • My FI's Best Woman will be wearing a suit to match the guys.  We asked her what she wanted to wear though and she opted for the suit.  I would have been fine with anything though - I even suggested a black cocktail dress, since that's what I suggested to my BMs and most women already have one but she wanted to rock a sexy suit.  But really, just ask your groomswoman what she'd like to wear.

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