I'd appreciate any insight on this issue...
A very good friend of my fiancé just received his invitation, addressed just to him, and left a voicemail saying that he and his two sons were excited to attend. He is a single father who has childcare resources. His sons are very sweet boys, but also 5 and 8 years old, and kids we don't have relationships with. They will need kid meals and won't just "blend into the background" like a small baby might do. We cannot tell this friend that it is an "adult only" event because we do have 7 family children who will be there.
How do we tell our friend that the invitation was just for him? We really want him there, but accommodating for two additional guests seems like a lot.
Any thoughts would be appreciated!