I'm getting married and I'm wondering if my best friend is not happy with my maid of honor decision. I am getting married in a few months and I have my sister as MOH, however over the last few months my best friend seems kind of distant with me. Let me explain the details.
Ten years ago I was my bff's MOH and some years ago I christened her second child. When I got engaged I wanted my sister to be my MOH because we are very close and have been through a lot the last 6 years from personal/family issues and I believe my sister really deserves the title. Although I did also initially think about my bff for the title I also thought being already her moh in the past, its not necessary for her to be mine. My goddaughter - her daughter - is my flowergirl.
I have thought about adding her as a bridesmaid, but my wedding is so small, I decided not to have any. Just a flowergirl and MOH in my bridal party.
My bff lives a good 900+ miles away from me, so its difficult to see her often to discuss it in person. So I am wondering whether I should bring the topic up by phone or not? I do get the feeling she just wants to play low-profile with me and since we don't see each other that often I can't think of any other reason why she would act in such a way.
Should I come out and just ask her? This is something I would rather ask in person not over the phone!