There's a girl I knew through my ex a few years ago. When I got engaged after a short dating period I can understand why people may have raised their eyebrows. We had a long engagement for a reason. This girl? Not so much. I know I shouldn't judge but sometimes its hard to not at least question some things.
They got engaged after 3 weeks of dating and you know what I saw today? Surprise! They're married. After a month of being engaged. Oh wait. It gets better. They got married today but are having the real wedding stuff in August so friends and family can be there. Why not just wait until then?
He's in the marines so I don't know if that has anything to do with it, but I kind of side eye this. That's fast. She's young. He is too. There's nothing wrong with being young, trust me, but I believe taking your time is important.
It only really bothers me because couples like this are why people side eye engagements of younger brides. And it bothers me too that sometimes people don't realize you do make a choice when you decide to elope or to have a wedding. You give something up no matter what. When you elope you give up the big wedding and PPD. When you have a wedding you tend to have to wait longer to get married and sometimes that sucks but to me it's worth it. Just be an adult and make your decision and stick with it.
Sorry I rambled. I guess being on TK kind of made me really weird about the whole PPD thing after a courthouse wedding.