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When is it too late to back out of the wedding as a bridesmaid?

gginggin member
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I've been asked to be a bridesmaid in a friend's wedding in May. I happily accepted. But, with all the planning I've been doing, she is now changing all my plans.
She also contradicts herself a lot and is now stressing me and my baby out, which isn't good. I don't want to bail out on her with just 3 months away but I need to think about my baby's health and mine. Please advise.
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  • Maggie0829Maggie0829 member
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    ggin said:
    I've been asked to be a bridesmaid in a friend's wedding in May. I happily accepted. But, with all the planning I've been doing, she is now changing all my plans.
    She also contradicts herself a lot and is now stressing me and my baby out, which isn't good. I don't want to bail out on her with just 3 months away but I need to think about my baby's health and mine. Please advise.
    What planning are you doing exactly?

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  • MollyandDMollyandD member
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    If I were in the position, I would probably just try to suck it up and be a bridesmaid, but I would only help with wedding related stuff if I truly felt up to it.

    Just for curiosity, can you give a little more information on how she is changing your plans and being difficult? If it was all terrible, I would probably back out and explain that it was just too much. It all depends on what has happened.
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  • KatWAGKatWAG member
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    ggin said:
    I've been asked to be a bridesmaid in a friend's wedding in May. I happily accepted. But, with all the planning I've been doing, she is now changing all my plans.
    She also contradicts herself a lot and is now stressing me and my baby out, which isn't good. I don't want to bail out on her with just 3 months away but I need to think about my baby's health and mine. Please advise.
    Are you referring to an infant or a cutesy name for your fi? And what is she doing to endanger your health?
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  • JCbride2015JCbride2015 member
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    Geez, what is she doing that endangers your and your baby's HEALTH?  And what planning have you been doing?
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  • ViczaesarViczaesar member
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    Need more info!  Color me intrigued.



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  • doeydodoeydo member
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    Do you mean you are pregnant and she is stressing you out so you worry that it could cause issues health-wise for you and your baby-to-be?  Also, what plans are you making?  
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  • antotoantoto member
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    Her wedding is harming your baby?  I'm confused... clarification needed!
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  • Jen4948Jen4948 member
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    How is her wedding stressing your baby out?
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  • cowgirl8238cowgirl8238 member
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    I need more info too please!
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