Level-headed. Cynical. Reasonable. But you also, presumably, are married or on the way to being married without getting so irritated by the whole process ("it's $9/head to add coffee, and of course there's the 20% service charge and 10% tax on every item...") every time you try to find a venue or caterer that it's 7 months into the engagement and you're still figuratively covering your ears shouting LALALALA every time your mother or friend wants you to pick something already.
Give me your wisdom, people. How do you start this maddening, supposed-to-be (and hopefully, potentially) enjoyable process without throwing common sense out the window?